Healing Through Architecture: Designing Compassionate Spaces for the Elderly

Retiring to views of rolling hills, lush with Prosecco grapes, evokes a sense of serenity. I imagined my father in such a place—a peaceful haven for his final days, surrounded by beauty, care, and comfort. But in January 2019, as I visited nursing homes for the elderly—some housing people living with dementia—I realized how far my imagination was from reality.

What I encountered was heartbreaking. Residents weren’t living out peaceful twilight years; they were surviving in spaces that felt cold, sterile, and devoid of human warmth. I had envisioned laughter in communal gardens, sunlight streaming through open windows, and vibrant human connections. Instead, I found silence, harsh lighting, and lifeless, clinical rooms—spaces that lacked compassion.

When Design Fails to Heal

Years ago, as a young architect, my mentor, Guillén, offered me a piece of advice before visiting a public hospital in Caracas. “Don’t forget to put on your armor,” he said, preparing me for the harsh realities inside. I learned to shield myself from the emotional toll of witnessing suffering in poorly designed spaces.

But as I stood in those nursing homes years later, that armor shattered. The reality hit too close to home, too personal. These were spaces meant to care for the elderly, yet they felt more like prisons for the vulnerable. The design wasn’t just failing—it was actively harming the human spirit.

The Prison-Like Reality of Nursing Homes

Long, featureless corridors. Locked doors. No access to fresh air, gardens, or even balconies. For many residents, life had been reduced to sterile rooms, fluorescent lights, and the hum of machines. In one facility, cardboard fireplaces offered a hollow semblance of warmth, while windows stayed firmly shut, keeping nature—and humanity—at bay.

These weren’t places designed for healing; they were spaces of confinement, isolating residents from the natural world and each other. For those living with dementia, these environments were especially tragic—reminders of how sterile design can strip away dignity and connect.

The Cost of Sterile Design: Humanity Lost

With each visit, I couldn’t stop imagining my father in such a place—deprived of sunlight, fresh air, and the simple joys of nature. The thought of him confined to a hospital-like corridor, staring at blank walls and harsh lights, broke my heart. What kind of life is that for anyone, let alone someone at the end of their journey?

As architects, we pride ourselves on meeting safety codes, durability standards, and functional needs. But what happens when we forget the most critical element: the human experience? We can meet every technical requirement, yet fail completely in creating spaces that allow people to live with dignity.

A Call for Compassionate Design

This isn’t about disregarding safety or efficiency—those are essential. But design must go beyond those fundamentals. The people living in these spaces are vulnerable. For many, this is their final home. Their reality will be shaped by the architecture that surrounds them, every single day.

Imagine being confined to a bed, staring at a ceiling because the design doesn’t allow for a window at eye level. Imagine navigating those long, endless corridors from the height of a wheelchair, unable to access a garden or even feel the breeze through an open window. Imagine spending your remaining days surrounded by the constant hum of alarms, the harsh glare of hospital lights, and the sterile scent of disinfectant.

This isn’t just a design flaw. It’s a failure of empathy.

Designing for Human Well-Being

As I walked through those homes, the contrast between the beauty of Italy’s hills and the sterile institutions I saw was stark. It made me reflect on my own life, my parents’ health, and the environments that shape us, especially as we age. My godmother, a humanistic psychologist, often spoke of the profound impact our surroundings have on our emotions, behavior, and well-being. Her insights, combined with my experiences in architecture and family care, deepened my conviction: empathetic design is non-negotiable.

Architects, decision-makers, and healthcare advisors: we are responsible for more than just buildings. We shape lives. Our designs must not only function—they must foster emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It’s time to prioritize spaces that nurture human connection, promote intergenerational relationships, and support mental and physical health.

Architecting Spaces That Heal

I believe in architecture’s power to heal, to uplift the human experience. Compassionate design means creating environments where laughter can echo through gardens, where sunlight streams into rooms, and where the elderly can live with dignity. These spaces should be more than functional—they should feel alive.

As architects, we have the power to shape not just the walls and floors, but the quality of life for those who inhabit them. Let’s embrace that responsibility with compassion. Let’s design spaces that aren’t just built to last, but built to care.

Marisa Toldo

Architect & Founder | Creating Spaces that Foster Innovation, Well-Being & Human Connection | Dementia & Intergenerational Practices Advocate | Founder @SpaceYourPlace @PortoDome

https://www.marisatoldo.com
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